The Forgetful Mind...

It's been a hectic couple of days for me. My cousin is getting married and I has been given an important task to handle. And actually I totally forgotten about it until the last second, so everything seems chaotic at the moment. Thanks to some good buddies of mine, with a few phone calls, the task is finished right at the last second. 

Right now, I'm just expecting that everything will be smooth on the big day tomorrow. FYI, I'm handling the flower arrangements. So hopefully everyone will be impressed by my masculine skills, my taste of elegance and my hati yang berbunga. Hehehe...

I'll be visiting you guys soon. So do wait for me, okay ?

Pretty sure next week, I'll start again the actual beraya thingy.

Ps : I know that the bride are allowed to freak out on their big day but does it make sense at all if her entire family freaks out too ? I mean, who is the one getting married here ?

Words before Raya...

To those who might get hurt from my choice of word, I'll be glad to say I'm sorry

To those who always there, I'll be happy to say thank you

To those who always care, I really appreciate the kindness of you

I'll hoping for all of you to have a safe journey home,

To celebrate the wonderful day of Raya,

With all smile and no sad face at all.

Selamat Hari Raya

Maaf Zahir dan Batin

your sincerely,

James K. Alexander

Ps : On the first day of Raya, I'll be with my family celebrating Raya at my kampung. Feel free to come and visit. It's not too far away. Still in the center of the city = Kampung Baru, Kuala Lumpur.

Not a Master...

'A man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.' 
by George Savile

Are you already become the master of patience ? If you do, good for you then. And everything can be handle easily especially in this time of the month. It would be just like a walk in the park.

For me, I still haven't mastered the art of patience. And I'm still trying to control my anger, lust and desire which I find it difficult to handle with all these temptations around me.

Ps : And right now, my patience is running thin because I still don't get my paycheck yet. How am I suppose to prepare for this upcoming Raya ? I know all the kids that I knew gonna throw themselves at me for the sake of Duit Raya. Grrr... 

One at a Time...

This is an onion

To get to know someone, you should not just go straight to the core. Just like the onion, you have to peel it one layer at a time.


Ps : Just so you know, it has nothing to do with The Onion Movie. Or the way chefs cook with an onion.

Do it yourself...

Dear friend, 

 I would help you for almost anything,

If you're broke, I can lend you some cash,

If you're minds troubled, I can give you some advices,

If you're lack of confidence, I can try to motivate you,

But to help you fight with some douche bag for a girl,

I'm sorry cause I'm not into it and I can't help you with that,

It's not my thing and besides it's just not worth it for me,

So if you want to fight, 

And put your fist to someone's mouth,

Do it yourself,

Cause as a gentlemen, 

That fighting part if it ever happen to me, 

I will handle it alone,

By myself...

Ps: I really hate a girl who makes two guys fighting each other just for the sake of her affection. Who does she think she is ? Scarlett Johansson ?

Nobody's Perfect

Perfect is a word that can't be used to describe a human being,

Because perfect does not exists in any possible way,

And it can only brings problem to me, 

Because if I decide to be with someone who claimed themselves perfect,

I tend to seek their wrong doings and flaws, 

And argue with them about their so called perfection,

And then decide to walk away from them,

Because I already know,

Humans are not divine,

Everyone should be just themselves,

Because nobody is perfect...

Make a move

A few years back...

'Bip !! Bip !! Bip !! Target acquired. You know, I've been aiming her since the first day my eyes met her.', said Man.

'Hey dude, she's looking straight at you with a little smirk on her face', Tam exclaimed.

'Just chill. Take a deep breath and go, buddy ! I know you can do it.' 

'Fuuuuh... Yeah ! Wish me luck.'

Making a move on a girl is exhilarating, nerve-wrecking, nail-biting and makes your heart filled with anxiety. Hoping to get it done in the right time is difficult. It's either do or die situation. It takes a lot of guts and all of the courage that you can muster to ask a girl out on a date because if you got rejected, to walk back to the place where you started from are definitely hard. It almost felt like your energy drained out from you and makes you feel so weak and incapable to take a step.

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'Hey ! Man is back. Let's hear it.'

'So how did it go, dude ?', I asked.

'HEHEHE... I'm in. I made it. She said yes and want to go on a date with me. Yeah !!!'

'Good for you, dude. Well done.' 

And the rest is history. Azman a.k.a Man are married to the girl and been blessed with 3 child. And they still live happily till this day. Rustam a.k.a Tam are still the same like me, single and hoping to get it done in the right place at the right time with the right woman. Well, I guess it's time for me to go back out there. And time for me to make a move.

Before it's too late

'Only solitary men know the full joys of friendship. Others have their family; but to a solitary and an exile, his friends are everything.'
 
by Willa Cather


If you have a decent family, you've been blessed
If you have good friends, you are very fortunate
If you have your love ones, you are so damn lucky
If you have it all, what else do you want for yourself ?
Be grateful and cherish them for the rest of your lives.
Before it's too late.